Andrew Cohen: "Sex, Trust & Creative Friction"

you said that the ultimate goal for within a relationship is to create peace and have peace oh well yeah that's one of them is there is this peace in space right so I just wanted you to talk and Trust right trust trust yeah but that but the trust is sacred trust is a sacred thing trust so if you can have sex and Trust in the same place right it's a big thing right right yeah that's where the Big Thrill is for me yeah trust that's where that's where all the space comes from see that's when God enters into when there trust there's no trust it's not it won't be there right trust is trust and space um so where does the no fear base for um creating a new in like evolutionary tension to create a new within the relationship come if the goal is peace well no I I was saying trust within the interpersonal sphere between the two individuals in terms of in their personal relationship in the in the interpersonal sphere between them in terms of what they're sharing is is peace but there's plenty of room for evolutionary attention in terms of a shared in terms of their shared creative Endeavor if they're committed for example to the evolution of self you know culture and Cosmos then that's what they're living for so that they're literally living for that they're living and breathing so that's going to happen through them that's exciting but in term but in terms that's the evolutionary tension is going to come from the authentic self from The evolutionary impulse itself but in terms of the space between them as human beings what you share is is trust so so if you can have the Deep trust between a c in a couple that's where the feeling of space comes from but there's no conflict between that and those those two individuals in that case being being committed to the evolution of self culture and Cosmos and and you know when people feel that burning searing energy coming through them it's not a personal it's not an interpersonal energy that has to do with the wi space that they're sharing in relationship to their Rel relationship it has to do with the relationship to life to being here in this world that that that vertical energy what so that could be an imperal conflict or at least friction dialogue to create what's new but it would be in terms of positive creative friction of course all the more the better the more creative friction there the more they're better the more creative friction there is the more ecstasy there's going to be in the relationships right the more creative friction there is the more easy it'll be in the relationship because then the more creative friction there is the more the individuals in the relationships not just sexual in this case then that that's when we feel that's when we actually experience the you know the truth of evolution is that we're all going somewhere so that's what we're going somewhere we're all on a journey we're going somewhere and so what so when that's not just an idea but when you actually experience the truth of it oh my when you experience that vertical movement happening within you and within other people at the same you actually we are going somewhere right now the Train's moving that's the biggest thrill so the more creative friction that there is between individuals the uh the the the more the more ecstasy experience based upon the shared direct experience and recognition of the fact that we're actually moving we're actually going somewhere evolution is happening in and through us right now so when you when you experience and when you initiate and experience the movement and the TS of evolution happening within you and within within the individuals that's the great in terms of evolutionary spirituality that's the greatest the greatest good is happening through you and that happens as a result of engaging great with great intensity with creative friction the more intensity the better and the more that happens that which is new begins to the emergence of that which is new potentials emerged that weren't there before and then you actually are creating something new with other people you're giving birth is something that you're giving AR you know something new is arising within you and within this Wii space that never existed before and that is as a result of creative friction just like as you brought up and that's the biggest thrill so we don't want the experience of sexual intimacy to to to in any way distract from the autonomy or the autonomous potential of the individual so we you know um that's a tall order right yeah